I’m an easy-going and friendly guy, but I have no idea how to broach the topic with single female friends, lest I scare them or have them consider me a deviant!

I’m not averse to the idea of developing friendships with such open-minded people, but I have no idea regarding the etiquette involved.

I’m a young, male university student in Melbourne, Australia who spends way too much time pontificating on societal hang-ups, if that matters. Throwaway email for the discreet/propositions:

Of course if you have a Myspace profile and you set your status to “swinger”, swinger groups will come out of the woodwork and proposition you

If you really want casual sex go chat up some women in bars or at private parties. I’ve generally had better luck at private parties but you have to be extra careful with making it clear that you’re only interested in casual sex and not a relationship because the people you meet at private parties are usually your friends’ friends which can lead to complications if someone gets hurt.

And, as mentioned above, it’s not taking advantage of someone just because there are a few drinks involved. Just don’t drag anybody home with you who’s drunk out of their skull and you’re fine. posted by sveskemus at 8:36 AM on

You’re at a university and can’t find casual sex? Really? Well, have you thought about throwing a theme party of some kind that requires skimpy clothing or costumes? You’ll be able to pick out the girls who are a bit friskier than the others by what they’re wearing.

– Toga party – Gods and goddesses party – Naughty and nice party (sort of like the hookers/vicars parties they have in the UK)

Just saying. Those people are guaranteed to be down with casual sex, both male and female. posted by Unicorn on the cob at AM on

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